If you would have told that girl, at this time last year, that she would and could be happy again, she wouldn't have believed you. But that girl believes you now. Amazing what a year can do to heal your soul. I can't remember what he looks like anymore. Other than my dogs and chickens I left behind, there's nothing about my previous married life that I miss. I sure don't miss him. My life is so peaceful and quiet. It's almost dang perfect. And I've recently met a new fella who I've been dating and getting to know. He's sweet and kind and kisses me on the fore head when he hugs me. We go to diners and some times he slurps his coffee when he drinks it, which makes me laugh. I use to catch such hell for slurping my tea around someone in my past life. Now I look across the table and laugh...life sure is funny...imagine getting upset just because someone makes a slurping sound when they drink something hot. I'm so lucky to be sitting on the other side of that table, across from someone, who some times, slurps their coffee too.